It’s been an extraordinary week and a lot of people are
feeling very unsettled (an understatement, I know). There were many reasons why
people voted the way they did, but regardless of the reasons, a win for a team which has expressed openly racist, sexist and homophobic views sends a frightening
message to many millions of people.
Now this is a picture book blog site and it’s a joint site
(please note, any views expressed here are my own) so I’m trying to make this about what we can do, practically, as writers and creators of children's books. And a lot of writers I know are feeling very low right now, and helpless,
and not inclined to write. After all, lots of writers posted and shared posts
calling out racism, sexism and homophobia –I was one of them– and all, seemingly, to no
avail. I for one feel foolish –for a second time this year, I’ve let myself get
too cosy in my own artificial bubble of social media contacts and probably felt
better about myself for sharing things that were going to have absolutely no
impact on anyone I shared them with except allowing other people like me to
feel better about themselves, because we share a horror of such intolerance.
In fact, the last couple of years have been my best years of writing yet, because I’ve felt like I’m writing more honestly. I feel more engaged with my emotions, I’m more prepared to be vulnerable, and I like what I’m writing now much more than anything I’ve written before. Because it’s from the heart. And much of what I’ve written has been inspired what has been happening over the past few years. And yet...
I still got it wrong. Properly wrong. I've let myself be duped by social media, where it has clearly been in the best interests of the people who profit from social media to let us live in our imaginary harmonious world of other people who think the same as us. I have my own protected life to live (with my three children), and it can be too easy to let Facebook be a comfort blanket and have my views reflected back at me without being challenged. And whilst I'm almost certain I've never shared anything (nor said anything) that mocked the opposite side or its supporters, in my cosy social media world where it was easy to assume people all pretty much felt the same, I didn't call people out on it publicly when I saw stuff that felt a bit patronising or even superior in the way I would have done if someone had been saying anything offensive from the opposition. I was lazy. And I am sorry.
In school visits, I encourage children to make mistakes and get things wrong. I make a big thing about it, because I think that it's critical for encouraging creativity, and we can get so much from learning from our mistakes. The children describe how it feels when they make mistakes: they feel embarrassed, upset, sad, small, horrible, angry, frustrated...
Barney Saltzberg's Beautiful Oops. Let's turn our mistakes into something positive and get to work...
Well, it's time to practise what we preach. I feel a lot of those emotions above. The circumstances that led to the possibility of people choosing someone whose behaviour and words encourage racism, sexism, homophobia and dismissal of people with disabilities, would have remained the same even if the vote had gone a different way. However the vote had gone, we would clearly need to be doing things a lot differently from how we've been doing them. I am part of the system that’s gone so wrong and as well as feeling horror at what is happening, I am also licking my wounds, feeling embarrassed and ashamed and accepting my part in that, however small. And then, I am making sure my response to it is positive and active, rather than despondent and inward looking. This isn't just happening now. It's been working up to this for a long time. There is so much for us all to do and since whatever we did do didn't work, we need to make changes. And tiny changes from large numbers of us can have a big impact.
So what can we as writers and picture book creators, do
right now, to play a more successful part in challenging intolerance, racism,
sexism and homophobia? How can we encourage critical thinking in children (and remind us to use it better ourselves)? First of all, we can fight off the desire to go and hide
under a duvet -and write (or take our pen and paper with us under the duvet and
write from there). In the words of Toni Morrison:
“This is precisely the time when artists go to work. There
is no time for despair, no place for self-pity, no need for silence, no room
for fear. We speak, we write, we do language. That’s how civilizations heal.”
It is not self-pitying to be inward looking for a little bit and challenge ourselves as to how we can do things better; it is crucial. And in terms of healing, which books are healing? I asked people (from a highly biased group of people of my
Facebook friends, the SCBWI British Isles Facebook site and the US-based picture
book writing site, PiBoIdMo group) which picture book they’d recommend for
children at the moment during these unsettling times, with a view to writing
this post. I was overwhelmed by responses -and a particular thank you to people with differing political views who posted. In this current climate, it can't have been easy. Here are some of the recommendations, with some responses:
Each Kindness by Jacqueline Woodson and E.B.Lewis (which
came up quite a few times by American writers). Also, by the same author, The
Other Side. ‘I love it so much. Especially poignant now because the children
voted differently in the election than the adults did. And in this book, the
children act differently than the adults, too--and they are correct’
Tusk Tusk, by David McKee ‘But maybe that's too depressing...’; also his book
The Conquerors, which came up a couple of times: 'about a general who invades countries for their own good (all except one little country...) and Two Monsters (arguing about whether the sun's rising or the dusk's descending)'
Dr Seuss came up for lots of people:
The Lorax –which came up several times ‘Very pertinent’, as did
Oh, The Places You'll Go!
‘...Chokes me up every time I read it to the kids (3 & 6) as it pretty much sums up life to me!’; ‘How the Grinch Stole Christmas! is a perennial favourite in our house. Reading it is not restricted to Christmas because we love it and take it in turns to recite the bits we know by heart. So the sharing of it is joyful and fun but there's also the lovely idea of his heart growing 'three sizes that day' because of the community spirit’; ‘The Sneetches are good for thinking about differences between us and the fact that ultimately we're all the same… they included it when doing Black History month at school…’ ‘I love Dr. Seuss's books! … teach… lessons in subtle ways. And I love his quirky kind of illustrations!’ and ‘who wouldn't want to build a quick trick chick stack? (Fox in Sox)… (and there were more)
–which came up several times and was the book I’d also been thinking about most this week: ‘such a wonderful and important message to give children’ (but it's ended up in so many of my posts that I'm putting a different book of hers this time -but you can watch Debi reading it if you press on the link, above). (Also, her Dragon loves Penguin: ‘still makes me cry. A great story of just because you're different doesn't mean you can't fit in’
and ‘At home, when we're feeling sad, we go back to Mr Bear Says Can I Have a Hug? - which I can recite by heart, we read it so many times’)
‘I think wordless PBs would be so effective right now--
Henry Cole's Unspoken comes to mind; so does Sidewalk Flowers (by JonArno Lawson and Sydney Smith)’. Others recommended wordless books, too: Tuesday and Flotsam by David Wiesner
and the wordless The Arrival by Shaun Tan. 'Poignant, resonant and exquisitely illustrated. But to share with an older child obviously'. Suggested by several.
Lost and Found by Oliver Jeffers. ‘Classic story and the boy learns to love 'the other'’; also his Hueys books, and The Way Back Home ‘beautiful in terms of friendship and …co-operat[ion]… even when the same language and culture is not shared’; and The Day The Crayons Quit
And then there are many other fantastic books recommended, some I know already and plenty, especially recommendations I was given from people on the US PiBoIdMo site, that I've never heard of. And where I've found them, I've put links to a YouTube reading of them.
The Knowing Book by Rebecca Kai Dotlich… ‘a beautiful and comforting book’
The Tin Forest by Helen Ward. 'It's such a beautiful idea because this man wants so much to be in a real
forest instead of a wasteland so he makes one out of tin, and soon one actually
grows... and the illustrations really show how the two become one. It's a
wonderful story about hope and the power of belief (but not the kind where you
just want stuff - where you do stuff to make it happen!)'
You Belong Here by M.H. Clark. '[A teacher I know]… plans to
use it in her legacy unit with 5th graders. She has a very diverse class and I
love that she creates an amazing community'.
Waterloo and Trafalgar by Olivier Tallec
One Family by George Shannon and Blanca Gomez
Peace Is An Offering by Annette LeBox and Stephanie Graegin
The Journey by Francesca Sanna (which came up a couple of times)
The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes and Louis Slobodkin
Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch and Michael Martchenko
Rosie Revere, Engineer by Andrea Beaty & David Roberts ‘Rosie
is a brilliant inventor of fabulous gizmos and gadgets. A couple of lines in
the book that I love......."Your brilliant first flop was a raging
success!" & 'Life might have its failures, but this was not it. The
only true failure can come if you quit' A fabulous inspiring & heartwarming
tale about failure, perseverance & self belief!’
Vanilla and Chocolate by Maritza Martinez Mejia and Estella
Mejia (recommended by the author) ‘a bilingual book about tolerance’.
I'm Coming To Get You by Tony Ross. ‘A great story about
keeping things in proportion. I'm not playing down our current situation but
cutting monsters down to size is always a good idea’.
‘So, in the spirit of communities pulling together I give
you
The Giant Jam Sandwich [by John Vernon Lord] which details the
extraordinary events that befall a small town and how the inhabitants deal with
them. Lots of bonkers ideas and social cohesion’.
The Tiger Who Came to Tea by Judith Kerr. ‘Love it and
somehow never scary!’
How to Live Forever by Colin Thompson
Owl Babies by Martin Waddell and Patrick Benson--'I love the
voices and the relationships'.
Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney and Anita Jeram. 'If only because it's life affirming and timeless and at the end of the day love
is all you need. And it's reassuring for yourself and your child'
The Christmas Eve Tree by Delia Huddy and Emily Sutton. 'Festive, features a homeless boy yet quite positive and not scary...'
The Robot and The Bluebird by David Lucas. ‘Really got to
me. Beautiful and bitter-sweet, brought a knot to my chest’. (I also felt really moved by David Lucas's honest and soul-searching approach to writing and illustrating picture books -which he discussed with us at the SCBWI Picture Book Retreat earlier this year.)
And a couple of people posted really interesting blog post
links which they've ordered books from (and so have I, since checking them out)…
‘It's not exactly profound but we've just read Dear Zoo and he laughed his tiny little head off’.
So, some really interesting books, suggested above (and
note, there are titles up there without a happy ending –which is unusual but
possible –Each Kindness, Tusk Tusk, for example)…
And now it’s time for us to get on and write.
People have clearly voted for change, and if we are unhappy
and unsettled about that, then we need to be out there, getting across a
message of love –and not just to people who think the way we think. It doesn't have to be an issue based story, or a preachy story (as the books above testify) -but when it is written from a place of love, that will come through. There is so much for us all to do (in our personal, public and writing/creating lives) to try and make a positive difference.
We must write. I am writing. I will write.
And I am committing to
taking bigger risks now –because we need to show even more love. To love loud, love
louder and love the loudest we’ve ever loved. To everyone (which means there needs to be more support for school
libraries and public libraries so the books can reach wherever they need to reach)–and we can do
that through picture books.
And I'm massively looking forward to the upcoming SCBWI British Isles conference this weekend where we can regroup and look to the future, and do what we must do: write, draw, create.
A huge thank you to everyone who posted recommendations and comments in response to my question -regardless of your political allegiances. I've kept the quotes anonymous. And in the spirit of coming together and trying to move forward towards a time where someone who said such hateful things would never have got enough support to run, I'd love to hear from anyone with any thoughts on how we can love louder in our stories for children (and encourage real dialogue between people who have vastly different experiences of living in society, without name calling) in a way
that isn’t preachy, and which other books would you recommend to encourage
greater love?
