Are You
Successful? How can you tell?
Who is to say what SUCCESS looks like – your audience?
Your family or your friends? Readers, librarians, parents? YOU?
You are an ARTIST and you must make your ART. You have no choice, because when you make art, you feel fulfilled, joyful even; when you do not, you feel as if an art-shaped hole has opened up. But that little voice niggles – is there more? Have I made it yet?
When weighing up success, a children’s book creator’s narrative might go something like this:
By virtue of its very meaning, success is the shifting sands of life. The word originates from the late 14th century word ‘succeden’, meaning "come next after, follow after another; take the place of another . . .’
So, in words sometimes attributed to Winston Churchill, but which are likely also an amalgamation of other earlier writings:
“Success is Not Final, Failure is Not Fatal:
It is the Courage to Continue that Counts.”
When thinking about whether you are successful as a creator, it is all too easy to look around and compare yourself to others. FOMO can be paralysing!
For me, it’s the authors who are prolific, who already have multiple book deals on the back of their debuts and seem to be thriving, according to their social media posts. Will I ever be like them?
It can be paralysing, and make you breathless. Goals are always shifting – you make one and when you reach it, there’s another goal and that’s the one that you feel you must aim for. And so on . . . You can feel there should be something more, something is missing, sometimes even that perhaps you aren’t enough.
External markers of success are everywhere, but there is a
key mindset shift we can choose that will make all the difference. Deep breath . . .
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| Don't Believe Everything You Think . . . You can change (and maybe even control) Your Perceptions of What Success REALLY is! |
Re-defining success:
Rather than looking at external markers, we can try to focus instead on the internal meaning of success. Consider: What does success mean for you personally, and what connections can you make with your art and your audience?
ACCEPT: You’ll Never Climb the Last Mountain – there will always be another goal.
When you accept that creating is a series of goals,
and when you’re prepared to redefine these as you
go along,
you can enjoy the process and celebrate each achievement.
This is success.
There will always be another mountain, another goal . . .
OPEN YOUR EYES to the World and Create Opportunities: Try and fail and BE BRAVE!
When you try your best, even if it doesn’t result in the end goal, you can feel proud of having tried. This is success.
Connect with others and share your work – whether it’s a rough draft or storytime with an audience, this outreach will bring you joy and fulfilment. This is success.
Give generously. When you help others, they will want to help you. This is success.
Learn new things every day.
Take responsibility for creating opportunities by connecting with others, showing up for your writing or illustrating and being pro-active at learning your craft - you’ll find that you naturally become more successful.
FOCUS ON WHAT MAKES YOU TICK
When you remember your passion, WHY you make art, you
can tap into your talent and truth and be grateful for what you can create and
share with the world. That is success.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
Saying no is part of establishing boundaries that enable you to create successfully.
Having the courage to focus on yourself and to feed your creativity through self-care (even if it means doing nothing), is an important part of creating space to make meaningful art.
Celebrate small victories. Take time to appreciate your efforts, no matter how small, and yourself. That is success.
WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE QUITTING: REMEMBER the WHY
Perseverance is a crucial part of success. If you Believe You CAN, you are much more likely to succeed.
If you tap into your passions – the reasons only YOU
can tell this story – the book you create will resonate with children and shine
beautifully. That is success.
CREATE WITH GRATITUDE
Find joy in the things that are
working, that you have in your life, rather than those that are missing. If you view life through the eyes of
abundance, it will deliver success - perhaps in new, unexpected joyful ways.
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Natascha Biebow, MBE, Author, Editor and MentorNatascha is the author of the award-winning The Crayon Man: The True Story of the Invention of Crayola Crayons, illustrated by Steven Salerno, winner of the Irma Black Award for Excellence in Children's Books, and selected as a best STEM Book 2020. Editor of numerous prize-winning books, she runs Blue Elephant Storyshaping, an editing, coaching and mentoring service aimed at empowering writers and illustrators to fine-tune their work pre-submission, and is the Editorial Director for Five Quills. Find out about her new picture book webinar courses! She is Co-Regional Advisor (Co-Chair) of SCBWI British Isles. Find her at www.nataschabiebow.com
2 comments:
This is just what I needed to read today, thank you!
Thank you. It's easy to forget to be kind to yourself when you're struggling and not achieving the goals you set yourself. Like many writers, I've been there and discovered changing direction for a while set me back on the road I wanted to be.
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